LIVE 155 🍏: TIPS SỐNG, HÀNH XỬ| BIÊN TRƯƠNG

YouTube Video Transcript Summary: Tiếp Sống và Hành Xử (Living and Acting) - Livestream #155

Key Concepts:

• Nghiệp (Karma): Consequences of actions, both positive and negative.
• Cải Nghiệp (Karma Improvement): Improving one's karma through actions, thoughts, and wisdom.
• Trí Tuệ (Wisdom): Understanding and applying knowledge to live a better life.
• Chấp Nhận (Acceptance): Accepting situations and circumstances without resistance.
• Duyên Âm (Negative Karmic Connections): Unfavorable relationships or situations due to past actions.
• Luật Nhân Quả (Law of Cause and Effect): The principle that every action has a consequence.
• Quy Luật Ân Điển (Law of Grace): Receiving positive outcomes by helping others.

1. Introduction and Announcements:

• Em (host) introduces Chị Biên and the topic of the livestream: "Tiếp Sống và Hành Xử" (Living and Acting).
• Announcements:
  • Chị Biên will host a free "Nội Tâm" (Inner Self) class from December 9th to 15th (Monday to Sunday). This is the third time she's offering this class due to high demand (around 700 participants in previous sessions). Classes are from 7:30 PM to 10:00 PM Vietnam time.
  • Chị Biên will also teach calligraphy from 4:00 AM to 7:00 AM Vietnam time during the same week. Participants can purchase calligraphy supplies through a link provided by Em.
  • Registration for the Apprenti khóa Sáu (Apprentice Course 6) is open. Contact Chị Biên or Em for information.
  • A "Nghệ Thuật Dẫn Giác Chàng For in Love" (Art of Leading Men For in Love) class will be taught by Chị Biên's coaches on December 20th, 21st, and 22nd (Friday, Saturday, and Sunday) from 8:00 PM to 10:30 PM. Registration is available on the fan page.

2. Tâm Linh (Spirituality) and Khoa Học (Science):

• Chị Biên prefers explaining spirituality through a scientific lens.
• The question of how to "break" or "get rid of" nghiệp (karma) is addressed.
• Traditional methods like cúng sao giải hạn (star offering for bad luck), eating vegetarian, niệm Phật (chanting Buddha's name), and seeking help from thầy (spiritual masters) are mentioned.
• The effectiveness of these methods is questioned if one's suy nghĩ (thinking) and hành vi (behavior) remain unchanged.

3. The Importance of Trí Tuệ (Wisdom) in Cải Nghiệp (Karma Improvement):

• Cải Nghiệp requires trí tuệ (wisdom).
• The process of tâm linh tiến hóa (spiritual evolution) needs trí tuệ as a tool.
• Without knowledge of nhân số học (numerology), nhân duyên nhân quả (cause and effect), 12 lý nhân duyên (12 links of dependent origination), and Tứ Diệu Đế (Four Noble Truths), cải nghiệp is impossible.
• Learning from a teacher who connects khoa học (science) and tâm linh (spirituality) is crucial.
• Instead of seeking fortune tellers, find a teacher who teaches phát triển bản thân (personal development).

4. Thông Minh (Intelligence) vs. Trí Tuệ (Wisdom):

• Thông minh (intelligence) is the speed of learning and understanding.
• Trí tuệ (wisdom) is knowing how to live, including bao dung (tolerance), yêu thương (love), and chấp nhận (acceptance).
• Living with trí tuệ helps cải nghiệp.
• Learning quy luật cuộc sống (life's rules) and quy luật ng sinh (natural laws) is essential.
• Examples of learning include:
  • Biết chấp nhận (knowing how to accept).
  • Không khán xét người khác (not judging others).
  • Doing things to make others vui (happy).
• Helping others increases one's own tinh thần sức khỏe (mental health) and improves karma.

5. Cải Nghiệp for the New Year (Ất Tỵ):

• Taking a class like the coach class is a way to cải nghiệp for the coming years.
• The coach class is described as a "được móc" (hook) to push one towards a new direction and eliminate negative karma.
• It helps create nhân duyên tốt (good causes) for a new life.

6. Chấp Nhận (Acceptance) and Tâm Không Phản Ứng (Non-Reactive Mind):

• Chấp Nhận is a crucial aspect of cải nghiệp.
• The thái độ (attitude) and ngôn từ (language) used in response to events can cut off negative karma.
• Reacting strongly to a situation worsens the impact, while chấp nhận minimizes it.
• Example: A bão (storm) is less damaging if one prepares and accepts it rather than resisting it.
• The speaker emphasizes that despite repeatedly mentioning chấp nhận, many people still struggle with it.
• Learning about vũ trụ (the universe), luật nhân quả (law of cause and effect), rung động tầng số rung động (vibrational frequency), and tâm lý căn bản (basic psychology) helps one chấp nhận.

7. Examples of Chấp Nhận in Real-Life Situations:

• Người Thứ Ba (The Other Woman): Accepting the inherent difficulties of being in such a relationship (e.g., not being publicly acknowledged) reduces suffering.
• Child Spilling Milk: Reacting calmly and helping the child clean up avoids creating new negative karma and teaches the child to be gentle.

8. The Power of Ngôn Từ (Language) and Thái Độ (Attitude):

• Choosing the right ngôn từ and thái độ can cải thiện (improve) a lot of nghiệp.
• Example: Responding calmly to a child spilling milk can cut off negative karma for the child, the parents, and the family.
• The speaker uses the example of customer service interactions to illustrate the importance of both ngôn từ and thái độ.
• Using polite and empathetic language (e.g., "It seems like you cannot control your emotion") is crucial, but the internal thái độ must also be genuine.
• The speaker contrasts the polite language of customer service with the potential for a negative internal thái độ, emphasizing that true chấp nhận requires both.

9. Code's Perspective on Personal Transformation:

• Em asks a coach from the coach class if it's possible to change one's personality and become more gentle.
• The coach, Hường, shares her personal experience of learning to khen (praise) others and manage her anger through the coach class.
• She believes that others can also change.

10. Further Discussion on Cải Nghiệp:

• Chị Biên plans to do another livestream on cải nghiệp before Tết (Lunar New Year).
• She mentions other aspects of cải nghiệp, such as the quy luật Ân điển (law of grace).
• Helping others improves one's own life, including tài chánh (finances).
• Example: Helping others and building good relationships can prevent financial scams.
• The speaker shares a personal anecdote about sharing her business knowledge with a friend who always admires her, illustrating the principle that generosity leads to receiving.

11. Conclusion:

• The key takeaway is that cải nghiệp for the new year requires đi học (learning) and developing trí tuệ.
• A fundamental aspect of trí tuệ is chấp nhận (acceptance) with a tâm thái An Nhiên (peaceful mindset).
• By accepting situations without reacting negatively, one can cải nghiệp.