Key Concepts
- Political candidacy
- Public service
- Work-life balance
- Imposter syndrome
- Teamwork
- IVF
- Mutual respect
- Leadership
- Personal growth
Self-Description and Guilt
Jasmine Lau, a 42-year-old PAP candidate, mother of two, and former civil servant, describes herself as "frank, unfiltered, and guilty." She elaborates on her guilt, citing feelings of inadequacy regarding her responsibilities to her children, husband, and parents due to the demands of her new role. Her children are two and four years old. She addresses her guilt by including her family in some campaign events, acknowledging the difficulty of separating her personal and professional life.
Unfiltered Persona
Jasmine acknowledges the potential perception of PAP candidates as being overly controlled but insists on being her authentic self. She believes that maintaining a facade is unsustainable and that voters will eventually see through it. She hasn't received any pressure to filter her thoughts or opinions.
Overcoming Pigeonholing
Jasmine addresses the perception that her background as a government scholar and civil servant leads people to assume she is a "rule follower" or a "yes man." She acknowledges the presence of online trolls who use terms like "parachute" and "shoe-in" to describe her candidacy. She views these criticisms as opportunities to connect with voters who are genuinely trying to understand her. She also defends the term "parachute," arguing that it shouldn't be used lightly, comparing it to the rigorous training of the Red Lions.
Imposter Syndrome and Introversion
Jasmine discusses her experience with imposter syndrome, particularly when taking on roles in the public service that require skills outside her comfort zone. She describes her initial discomfort with the extroverted nature of her role at EDB, where she had to engage with Singaporeans around the world. She overcame this by preparing herself mentally before events, focusing on smaller, more intimate settings, and reminding herself of her capabilities. She uses her experience as a competitive athlete, specifically her pre-game routine, to mentally prepare for challenging situations.
Teamwork and Netball
Jasmine draws parallels between her experience playing netball and her approach to teamwork in professional settings. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing and accepting individual roles and limitations within a team. She uses the example of her netball team, where teammates understand each other's strengths and weaknesses and provide constructive criticism. She acknowledges her own weakness in defense and appreciates her teammates' feedback. She applies this to her work life, understanding that she can't do everything for her colleagues but can support them in various ways.
IVF Journey
Jasmine shares her experience with IVF, highlighting the emotional challenges for both partners. She describes the difficulty of relinquishing control and accepting the uncertainty of the process. She recounts a specific incident where she cried upon learning that the embryo couldn't be implanted immediately due to overstimulation, despite the procedure not being a failure. This experience taught her to let go of control and accept the unpredictable nature of life, which she believes has helped her in parenting.
Decision to Enter Politics
Jasmine explains her decision to enter politics, despite being an introvert and having rejected previous offers. She reframes the concept of "sacrifice" as a "responsibility" to use her skills and experience to serve the country. She uses the analogy of a river to describe the country's political landscape, suggesting that she aims to guide the river's course in a way that benefits the people without causing upheaval. She believes that the country needs more mutual respect and reliance.
Vision for Change
Jasmine's primary goal, if elected, is to foster a culture of mutual respect and reliance in the country. She emphasizes the importance of respecting candidates from all parties and condemning online trolling and disrespectful behavior. She believes that leaders should model this behavior to inspire future generations.
Polling Day Music
On polling day, Jasmine hopes to spend time with her family and listen to music that her children enjoy, such as Paw Patrol and Wheels on the Bus.
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