Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex | Lex Fridman Podcast #483

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Key Concepts

• Dark Tetrad: A constellation of four personality traits associated with dark personality traits: psychopathy, sadism, narcissism, and Machiavellianism. These are viewed as a continuum rather than a binary classification.
• Continuum of Evil: The idea that "evil" is not a fixed label but a spectrum of traits and behaviors, with individuals scoring differently on various dark personality traits.
• Dehumanization & De-individuation: Psychological processes that facilitate harmful actions by removing empathy for the "other" and dissolving individual responsibility within a group.
• Evil Empathy: The concept of applying empathy to understand individuals labeled as "evil" to better comprehend and prevent harmful behaviors.
• Creepiness Metric: An intuitive perception of trustworthiness that is often unreliable, influenced by deviations from social norms.
• Deception Detection: The difficulty in reliably identifying lies, even for experienced professionals, leading to overconfidence and potential miscarriages of justice.
• False Memory: Memories of events that did not actually happen, or are significantly distorted, which are a common feature of the human brain.
• Kinsey Scale: A scale from 0 to 6 used to classify sexual orientation, recognizing that sexuality exists on a continuum rather than a binary.
• Klein Sexual Orientation Grid: A more complex scale than the Kinsey Scale, assessing sexual identity, behavior, fantasies, social preference, and lifestyle preferences across past, present, and ideal states.
• Aphantasia: The inability to create mental imagery.
• Green Crime: Crimes related to environmental destruction, including poaching, illegal gold mining, and corporate fraud.
• Cognitive Interview: A scientifically validated interview technique designed to elicit detailed and accurate memories by using specific, non-leading questions.
• State-Dependent Memory: The phenomenon where memory recall is enhanced when the emotional state during recall matches the emotional state during memory formation.
• Rosy Reminiscence Bias: The tendency for people to look back at their lives with a more positive interpretation of past events.
• Autobiographical Memory: Memories of personal experiences, which are often gist-based and subject to modification.

The Continuum of Dark Traits and the Nature of "Evil"

Julia Shaw, a criminal psychologist, discusses the concept of "evil" not as an inherent quality but as a continuum of dark personality traits. She introduces the Dark Tetrad, comprising psychopathy (lack of empathy, parasitic lifestyle, deceptiveness), sadism (pleasure in hurting others), narcissism (excessive self-love and perceived superiority), and Machiavellianism (manipulative pursuit of goals). Shaw emphasizes that individuals score on a scale for each trait, and high scores across all can increase the likelihood of harmful behavior. She argues against labeling individuals as "evil," as this "others" them and hinders understanding. Instead, she advocates for humanizing individuals and recognizing that "we all have the capacity to kill people and murder people and do other terrible things." The crucial question, she posits, is why we don't do these things.

Shaw challenges the notion of people being "born evil" with the "baby Hitler" thought experiment. She suggests that while individuals like Hitler may exhibit traits associated with sadism and low empathy, their development is shaped by nurture and environment, not solely by innate predisposition. She highlights that the word "evil" often ends conversations, preventing deeper understanding of the psychological and social factors that lead to harmful actions.

Dehumanization, De-individuation, and Empathy

In the context of large-scale conflicts like war, Shaw explains that dehumanization (viewing others as less than human) and de-individuation (seeing oneself as part of a group, losing individual identity) are crucial for enabling violence. Both sides often perceive their actions as a battle of good versus evil. Shaw advocates for "evil empathy" – empathizing with those labeled as evil – not to condone their actions, but to understand the psychological and social levers that led them to commit crimes. This understanding, she argues, is essential for making society safer by preventing future harm.

The Unreliability of Intuition and Deception Detection

Shaw discusses the unreliability of our intuitive perceptions, particularly regarding "creepiness." This feeling is often triggered by deviations from social norms, leading to fear and distancing, even if the individual is not inherently dangerous. This extends to our ability to detect deception. Citing research by Aldert Vrij, Shaw states that people, including law enforcement, are often no better than chance at detecting lies, despite high confidence levels. This overconfidence can lead to misidentification of suspects and wrongful convictions. This difficulty in deception detection also impacts personal relationships, fueling jealousy and uncertainty.

Psychopathy, Lying, and Treatment

Research suggests that individuals with psychopathy may be better at lying and "faking good" in situations like parole hearings. While some historical concerns suggested empathy-focused treatments could make psychopaths more adept at faking empathy, newer approaches, like those by Jennifer Skeem, focus on teaching prosocial behavior as a more effective path to achieving goals. Shaw emphasizes the need for tailored treatments for dark personality traits.

The Nature of Memory and False Memories

Shaw's research on false memories is a significant focus. She explains that autobiographical memories are not perfect recordings but are often "gist memories" that are reconstructed and can be modified. She states that "basically every single autobiographical memory you have is false," meaning it has a degree of falsehood, though not necessarily a complete fabrication. Her research, including implanting false memories of committing crimes, demonstrates how easily memories can be distorted or created, especially through leading and suggestive interview techniques. She highlights that this is a feature, not a bug, of the human brain, enabling creativity and problem-solving. However, in legal contexts, the verbatim details of memories are crucial and can be manipulated, leading to potential miscarriages of justice. Shaw emphasizes the importance of contemporaneous evidence (writing things down immediately) to combat memory distortion.

Sexuality, Bisexuality, and Relationship Structures

Shaw discusses her research on sexuality, particularly bisexuality. She challenges the misconception that bisexuality is a phase or a stepping stone to being gay, especially for men. She introduces the Kinsey Scale and the more detailed Klein Sexual Orientation Grid as frameworks for understanding the spectrum of human sexuality. Shaw notes that bisexual men are more likely to identify as gay or straight due to societal pressures and queerphobia within the LGBTQ+ community. She also touches on the hypersexualization and misunderstanding of bisexual women.

Shaw expresses a non-traditional view on jealousy, seeing it as a red flag indicating insecurity or a desire for control, rather than a sign of love. She suggests that monogamy, as a social construct, may set people up for failure, and advocates for open relationships and non-traditional structures as healthy options. She also discusses the challenges of polyamory, emphasizing that it requires a strong foundation of self-awareness and communication.

Kinks, Fetishes, and Destigmatization

Shaw addresses the common association of kinks and sexual fantasies with "evil." She argues that many kinks, like BDSM, are commonplace and consensual, and that shame surrounding them can lead to mental health issues. She advocates for destigmatizing diverse sexual expressions and identities, including homosexuality and bisexuality, which have historically been villainized. The disinhibition hypothesis is presented as an explanation for the appeal of certain sexual fantasies, where individuals can let go of social pressures and be fully present in the moment.

Green Crime and Environmental Destruction

Shaw's upcoming book, "Green Crime," explores the psychology behind environmental crimes. She likens the Earth to a shared house that is being deliberately damaged. She examines cases like the Volkswagen "Dieselgate" scandal, where clever individuals engaged in widespread deception and cover-ups. Shaw notes that environmental crime often involves complex, multi-level organizations and smart individuals, making it different from the more individualistic violent crimes often discussed. She highlights the role of conformity, social pressure, and rationalization in these corporate crimes. Shaw expresses optimism about the future due to the growing awareness of environmental issues and the dedicated researchers and enforcers working to combat these crimes.

Hope and the Future

Despite the darkness she studies, Shaw finds hope in the fact that people are dedicated to understanding it. She believes technology, when used in a science-backed way, can help overcome human limitations, such as faulty memory. She co-founded Spot (talktospot.com), a tool that uses AI to administer cognitive interviews for recording important emotional memories and compliance issues. She emphasizes the need for social scientists to be involved in the development of AI to ensure it is used responsibly and ethically, rather than solely as an engineering problem. Ultimately, Shaw believes that empathy, scientific inquiry, and the celebration of those fighting for environmental protection offer a path forward for humanity.

Notable Quotes

• "We all have the capacity to kill people and murder people and do other terrible things. The question is why we don't do those things rather than why we do those things quite often." - Julia Shaw
• "The word 'evil' is the end of a conversation." - Julia Shaw
• "Gaze into the abyss, and the abyss gazes into you." - Friedrich Nietzsche (referenced by Julia Shaw)
• "Most of the evil in the world is done by people with good intentions." - T.S. Eliot (quoted at the end of the podcast)
• "The biggest thing that researchers find people misunderstand about bisexuality is that it's a phase and that it's this idea that it's transient, that it's always changing, and that it's a stepping stone." - Julia Shaw
• "Jealousy is basically always a red flag." - Julia Shaw
• "The truth and fiction sort of circle is always an interesting one." - Julia Shaw
• "We know that false memories are common, that they're a feature of a normal, healthy brain. They're not this glitch, they are a feature." - Julia Shaw
• "The first thing that's important is for people to understand that they are capable of creating these false memories, and that they're not this really unusual, hard-to-generate thing. They're actually a normal memory process." - Julia Shaw
• "Attention is the glue between reality and memory." - Julia Shaw
• "The worry is that we've gotten comfortable feeling like we can just access things that aren't modified or that are less likely to be modified, and now they're more likely to be. And that can interface with our memories." - Julia Shaw
• "The essence of that is right. There is something called state-dependent memory, which is that you're more likely to remember things that were consolidated or created as memories if they match the state that you're in now." - Julia Shaw
• "The question is, are the people who are, for example, I use the Dieselgate Volkswagen case... What leads people like that to lie about it, to create these things and to continue lying when they are caught?" - Julia Shaw
• "I have empathy for everybody." - Julia Shaw