Feeling Really Overwhelmed? Discover the Science of Emotion Regulation
By Dr. Tracey Marks
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Key Concepts:
- Emotional Overwhelm: When stress exceeds coping abilities.
- Emotion Regulation: Managing and responding to emotional experiences.
- Amygdala: Brain's emotional center, triggers fight-or-flight.
- Prefrontal Cortex: Brain's rational thinker, involved in decision-making and impulse control.
- Neuroplasticity: Brain's ability to adapt and change neural pathways.
- Savoring the Senses: Grounding technique focusing on sensory experiences.
- Labeling the Emotion (Affective Labeling): Identifying and naming specific emotions.
- Cortex: Outermost layer of the brain, divided into lobes responsible for various functions.
1. Understanding Emotional Overwhelm
- Emotional overwhelm is defined as the state where stress or emotional burden exceeds one's ability to cope. It's characterized by spiraling thoughts and emotions, leading to paralysis or heightened distress.
- This isn't just psychological; it's rooted in brain processes. Intense stress activates the amygdala, triggering fight-or-flight, which impairs the prefrontal cortex's ability to think rationally.
- The prefrontal cortex is responsible for rational thinking and decision-making.
- Being overwhelmed isn't a character flaw but a result of the brain's wiring. Emotion regulation is key to building resilience.
2. The Science of Emotion Regulation
- Emotion regulation is the brain's ability to manage and respond to emotional experiences, involving the prefrontal cortex and amygdala.
- The amygdala acts as an alarm system, constantly scanning for threats. The prefrontal cortex is the rational thinker, helping with decisions and impulse control.
- During overwhelm, the amygdala can "hijack" the brain, hindering the prefrontal cortex's ability to calm things down.
- The cortex, the brain's outermost layer, is made of gray matter and divided into lobes: frontal (decision-making, emotion regulation), parietal (sensory information), occipital (visual processing), and temporal (memory, language).
- Neuroplasticity allows strengthening pathways in the prefrontal cortex through consistent effort, enhancing emotion regulation. Emotion regulation is a trainable skill.
3. Strategy 1: Savoring the Senses
- Savoring the senses is a grounding technique that anchors you in the present by focusing on one sense.
- Process:
- Choose a sense: sight, touch, smell, taste, or sound.
- Select a specific stimulus for that sense (e.g., a textured stone for touch).
- Spend 20-30 seconds fully experiencing the sense, paying attention to every detail.
- Acknowledge how the sensation makes you feel.
- This technique activates the brain's sensory processing centers, creating a sense of control and calm, diverting focus from distressing thoughts.
4. Strategy 2: Labeling the Emotion (Affective Labeling)
- Labeling the emotion involves consciously identifying and naming specific emotions being experienced.
- Process:
- Pause when feeling overwhelmed.
- Tune into internal sensations.
- Identify and name the emotions (e.g., "I feel anxious and frustrated").
- Acknowledge that it's okay to feel that way.
- By labeling emotions, you activate the prefrontal cortex, which calms the amygdala and reduces emotional intensity. It creates mental space to manage emotions.
- Labeling doesn't dismiss emotions but recognizes them for effective management.
- The Essential Tools card deck (available at MentalWellnessStore.com) can aid in identifying emotions in the moment. The affective labeling cards are cards 19 through 24. The six common top level emotions are happy, fearful, hurt, sad, inadequate, and angry.
- Example: Feeling uneasy after a boss's email. Using the cards to identify the feeling as resentment due to perceived micromanagement and unequal treatment. This diffuses the emotional intensity.
5. Real-World Application and Example
- The video provides a personal example of using the emotion cards after receiving an email from her boss. The initial feeling was uneasiness, but using the cards, she identified the emotion as resentment. This allowed her to analyze the situation, manage her anger, and approach the meeting with a more open mind.
6. Conclusion
- Emotional overwhelm can be managed with the right tools. Savoring the senses and labeling emotions are two techniques that engage the brain to calm emotional storms and regain control.
- The video encourages viewers to practice these techniques and share their experiences.
- Watching the previous video on neuroplasticity is recommended for a deeper understanding of building emotional strength.
- The journey to resilience involves equipping oneself with the right tools and practicing them consistently.
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